You know its going to be a good post when i use the word dillema ( and alternate spelling). If only i knew what that word meant...Well here they are in there shining glory. Now some of you out there may have be or have been freshman girls. So i have a hypothetical situation to put to you . Need some advice. Ok so up to this play the girls i met, you could converse with ( the guru) or insult ( Martha) without ever worring about anything beyond that. Here is the problem Mrs. S and i have had several conversations. And getting inteligent conversation out of her is like ummm....ummm.... drawing blood with fishhooks. Granted this may be some sort of backlash from the fact that the first month or so of my former romantic relationship, if PR got more than a monosylibic anser out of me she was lucky. This whole thing feels very highschool. Poking? it was funny the first time, maybe the second time, but it got old say after the fiftyth time. I mean is this just normal freshman girl, i cant beleave i'm in college? Its getting old, i barely now her and it seems we spend an inordinate amount of the very little time we spend together flirting like highschoolers, try anything else and conversation shuts down. Perhaps Mrs. S you and i may not be made for each other. hmmm....thoughts?
Ok i had a second dilema. Oh yes now i remember. Now the guru is on facebook. I'm on facebook. Do i invite the guru to be a friend? Hmmm...here are my musings. First i never talk to the guru seems kind of lame to invite her to be a friend when i never talk to her. Granted just about every body has a bazzillion people on thier friends list, but she also seems to be like the type that doesnt do the whole only online relationship thing. I would have moral qualms insinutating myself into the email comunity of someone who doesnt particualary like that sort of thing. Well have other stuff to do. Not realy. Just no more dilemas.
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Ahh, good post. Let me briefly fill you in on the Rage theory of attractivity. I'm sure I've shared it with you before, so this will be a refresher.
Every element that you want in a girl builds up to 100% of your perceived Ideal Girl. Most people have a certain idea of what elements are most important in their IG. For instance you might decide the following weights:
Looks-60% importance
Brains-30% importance
Family-20% importance
Friends-10% importance
However, these criteria are rarely met perfectly so in order to relieve the cognitive dissonance we have to make adjustments. So you meet a girl that isn't as smart as you'd like, say a 15% smart. You then have to evaluate the rest of the factors to see if she makes the loss of percentage up in other areas.
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